Introduction:

Most people are un-aware of the impact language has in their life. Language shapes your inner experience and your outer reality mirrors it. Language focuses and directs your attention. Do you know energy follows attention? It does! Through language you define yourself mentally and you determine the limits to your imagination and capacities. Your language is an expression of your thoughts, ideas and concepts and it has tremendous power when used consciously.

 

Language functions similarly to a software operating system in a computer: it carries information and executes instructions. Language is an operating system for the mind based on beliefs that ignite emotional patterns and drive unconscious behavior or language expresses rational intelligent ideas that inspire conscious action.

On the surface language appears to be only a means for communication. In actuality language shapes your consciousness and literally creates your life every time you express words as a decree.

To decree means: to speak with feelings in such a way that the words you use become your internal law and authority.

 

The words you use become your internal law and your mind believes it is the author and executioner of the law. As an author your mind can be well or ill informed when decreeing the laws that govern your life. Internal order becomes more complicated by the fact that your unconscious mind is 100% literal, it takes your words as instructions for what to create. When you tell yourself “I can’t” or “is impossible” these decrees becomes your law every time you add feeling and emotion to what you speak, likewise when you passionately decree “I can and I will”, you become that version of you.

 

Words are representations that are approximations of the objective external world and not the world as it is. However, your physical senses pick up accurate information from the environment around you. A lack of accuracy in verbal language’s description of the world disorders the nervous system and, results in you perceiving what you believe instead of what actually exits in the world.

 

The use of language further distorts your inner reality when it describes reality in terms of past or future.  Now is the only time that creation exists. You do not exist in the past or the future and removing your presence from your now experience generates stress that leads to dis-ease, confusion, lack of groundedness. Being absent from now distorts the natural flow of your life. Language also carries cultural collective prejudices and false beliefs that get passed on through education and parenting.

 

Unconscious Language

 

Most people’s language is unconscious by virtue of expressing vague ideas, being inaccurate, false and oriented towards the past or the future. This way of communicating is confusing because of improper syntax. Syntax is the way words are grouped together to create sentences and it dictates the kind of meaning expressed.

 

Confused language creates the appearance of separation, lack, limitation and struggle. It separates you from the world of objects and symbols it expresses and places creatorship outside of you. The words that express separations are: the, this, that, then, those etc. For instance: the money (separation) versus my money (connection).

 

Popular words that express lack are “want” and “need”. Both express the uncomfortable feeling of desiring without having. To claim being a creator is to know that imaging the feeling of creation as real as possible in your mind is required before it can manifest externally.  You can imagine yourself out of a negative emotional state of wanting or needing something by focusing your attention on the picture and the good feeling of having it now.

 

Examples of words that express limitation are: I can’t, I wont, its impossible etc. Words that express struggle deny choice for example: should, must, have to etc. Both of these are examples of the kinds of thoughts a mind think because of what it has been conditioned to believe.

 

Unconscious language focuses attention on problems and what is wrong, could be wrong and what is expected to go wrong. Expressing these empowers all kinds of limitations that are inherent in the limiting beliefs directing your attention.

 

Unconscious language expresses limited and false beliefs systems. These generate strong emotional reactions that give the appearance of being real. The mind believes something is real when it observes it and has a strong feeling about it. A strong feeling about what the mind is observing arise because the mind already has an unconscious belief about what it is observing. If you get angry “because someone is doing something wrong” your mind believes the intensity of your anger confirms the reality of your perception. In actuality, the intensity of your anger only confirms what you already believe!!!

Ultimately all unconscious limiting beliefs have painful memories associated with them. The reason people hold on to old pain is that your ego identity depends on you having a past. Also, you are biologically wired to keep remembering what hurt you so you know what to do. This means your language exposes your limiting beliefs and their lack of validity in defining who you are, now.

 

Unconscious language leads to self-sabotage. What is most detrimental about unconscious language is the fact that you are continually engaged in an inner dialogue whose language is a repetition of the past. Negative, unloving, limiting self-talk directs your attention to the same beliefs that drive your attitudes and generates unhealthy behavior. To end self-sabotage requires continual upgrades in your language much like computer software requires new information. Most people inner speech is passionate about limitations and is fear base thinking. Self-sabotage is created out of false limiting beliefs that have strong emotional charges that remain unresolved.

 

Conscious Language 

Conscious language is first person personal: I, me, us, and ours. It is outcome oriented and expresses the feeling of the outcome already fulfilled. This is the most important aspect of conscious language: it establishes in this now moment the magnetic attraction for the opportunities of what is desired, energy follows attention. When you focus on the feeling of lack and see pictures of lack in your mind, that is what you attract.

Conscious language creates the feeling internally independent of what a situation looks like externally. It is specific, grounded in the here and now and expressing what is true in your heart. It is based on choice and possibilities instead of limiting beliefs. It magnetizes opportunities, is liberating, fresh and innovating. Conscious language engages your greater Self ‘ vitality, enthusiasm, eagerness, confidence and determination, now!

 

“Conscious language requires your commitment to become

Self-aware”

 

To be conscious is to be aware and awake paying attention instead of identifying with thoughts and feelings. To know that whatever you are experiencing you have attracted to you and, to have the power to relate to it responsibly. To engage in conscious language means to speak only what you choose to have come into manifestation, moment to moment. In this way your language becomes alive and is pure Self-expression of your hearts desires-which are your highest choices.

 

Conscious language is an effective system of information exchange. It is a living evolutionary process that grows by incorporating new options and new choices. It changes over time by consistently upgrading itself as you mature.

 

Language upgrades consist in embracing an attitude of courage to afford yourself new choices for example: to be effective, to increase the experience of having, healing chronic conditions, to forgive unconditionally, to decree enjoying something new and to consciously express appreciation for what you already have.

 

Conscious language is a tool to create new choices in every situation you encounter. This tool empowers you to speak only what you decide to experience word by word.

 

Upgrading your language

 

Upgrading your language from unconscious to conscious is a transformative process. This self-transformation exposes the fact that you are creating your self-identity and your experience of your life through your language moment by moment!

 

The first step in this process is to learn to listen to what you hear you and others say and how it is said. Listening is one way to discover what and how you are thinking. Your inner speech becomes your manifested experience of reality, literally.

 

When you begin to adopt conscious language for a while your unconscious inner speech will also manifest what it believes. For example you decide to declare: “I choose to be happy” and all of a sudden you feel sad. What is happening is that the powerful energy of happiness opens up inner space where sadness is generated due to unconscious beliefs that have not been challenged.

 

In other words, upgrading your language will for a while, expose a paradoxical experience. For example declaring “I’m abundant” brings up the feeling of lack or “I choose ease” brings up the feeling of struggle. The process of language upgrade brings up contracting negative emotions and expansive states of being simultaneously. This paradoxical experience feels “weird and strange” and is temporary.

 

Summary: Upgrading your unconscious language is a process of self-transformation. To speak consciously is to challenge an old emotional identity maintained by self-sabotage and to dare to live life as a potential presence coming into manifestation, moment by moment. Upgrading language claims conscious authorship of your inner experience, moment by moment, and exposes limited belief systems that generate strong emotions that falsely pretend to be “real”. Conscious language addresses what is off course and replaces it with what is on purpose.

 

The impact of conscious language is to liberate your attention from the powerful habit of creating the feelings of lack, separation and limitation. Conscious language exercises creative imagination and re-claims creativity to serve outcome producing thoughts, words and better feeling feelings. The combination of all these factors changes your self-identity.

Do you care to be aware of how your words make you feel? Will you ask yourself empowering questions to challenge your limiting beliefs? You can heal your past and transform your limited identity through conscious language, will you?

 

Written by Osiris Montenegro

www.becomeselfaware.com

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